Many cultures teach that a man’s value depends on how much money he makes.
This mindset can place unfair pressure on men, making them feel less worthy if their wives earn more.
But God never tied a man’s identity to his income.
Our true worth comes from who we are in Christ (Genesis 1:27, Romans 8:16).
When a man understands this, he won’t feel insecure or try to suppress his wife’s growth. Instead, he will love and support her, knowing they are teammates, not rivals (Ephesians 5:25, 1 Peter 3:7). Her success doesn’t subtract from his, it adds to their shared strength.
In reality, a woman earning more can be a great blessing to the home, especially in today’s world where financial demands are high.
It can relieve pressure from the man, provide greater stability, and help the family reach goals faster.
The Bible says, “One shall chase a thousand, and two shall put ten thousand to flight” (Deuteronomy 32:30).
When both husband and wife bring their strengths to the table, including financial strength their home becomes more productive and secure.
This should never be a reason for power struggles or disrespect.
A godly woman should still remain humble and honoring, while the man should see her prosperity as a shared victory, not a threat.
Finally, every man must know who he is in Christ; not just as a provider, but as a God-appointed leader and partner (2 Corinthians 5:17).
And every woman who earns more should clothe herself with wisdom, honor, and kindness (Proverbs 31:26).
God is the ultimate source and provider (Philippians 4:19).
When both understand this, money stops being a measuring stick and becomes a tool for shared purpose.
Together, they will build a balanced, loving home that reflects God’s design and leaves a lasting legacy for future generations
